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Good and bad sides to politics

| October 30, 2008 11:00 PM

My husband is Steve Qunell, the Democratic candidate for county commissioner, and as anyone in politics could tell you, the past several months have been a roller coaster ride that has taught me a few things about politics — some good, some bad.

On the good side, Steve and I have met hundreds, thousands actually, of people who share our genuine concern for our county's future.

On the bad side, we watch as the fear and smear of negative politics calls into question our good name based only on what some people hear rather than the true facts.

A most recent attack went way too far, though. We recently received a mean-spirited letter signed only "Bob" with no return address and no contact information. "Bob" called into question my dedication to my family because I work part-time as a teacher and occasionally waitress at a local restaurant. "Bob" said that he couldn't vote for Steve because I "spend little or no time" with my children.

It's time to set the record straight for "Bob" and anyone else who would question our family and our values. Since "Bob" seems more concerned about me than the relevant issues in Steve's campaign, I'll address his concerns.

First of all, I consider myself to be the luckiest mom, wife, and teacher in the Flathead. I am fortunate enough to share a teaching job with another mom and professional woman, and I share full-time parenting duties with my husband.

I also waitress a couple days each month because I like the work and it brings in a few extra bucks — something that I'm sure many families in the Flathead could use. Contrary to what you might think, "Bob," I spend as much time with my children as any working mom.

I also feel very fortunate that my kids are home with one of their parents almost all the time because not too many families have that luxury. At times, that has meant Steve works and I stay at home, and right now we both work part-time.

It also means that I have the opportunity to fulfill a satisfaction that lies outside motherhood, and frankly, it makes me a better mom. I'm sure most working moms would agree — and there are a few important working moms in the spotlight this year.

So, "Bob," be man enough to let us know who you are, so we can set the record straight for you before you blindly accept everything you hear. Try going to the source and get the real information before you decide to vote based on fear, smear and lies — and before you pass on your lies to the next person. Being an informed voter takes some courage, my friend, and that is what democracy is all about.

Jessica Qunell lives in Whitefish.